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Author Gil, Eliana.

Title Outgrowing the pain : a book for and about adults abused as children / Eliana M. Gil ; illustrations, Sally Haskell.

Imprint Walnut Creek, Calif. : Launch Press, 1984.

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Location Call No. OPAC Message Status
 Axe Special Collections Eucalyptus  158 G37o 1984    ---  Lib Use Only
Edition 2nd ed.
Description 84 pages : illustrations ; 22 cm
text txt rdacontent
unmediated n rdamedia
volume nc rdacarrier
Bibliography Includes bibliographical references (page 84).
Contents Is this book for me? -- Coming to terms with the abuse: Denial; Definitions of abuse; Minimizing; Rationalizing; Selective memory; -- Ok, I believe it, now what?: Anger; Fear; Shame; Relief; -- Aftereffects of abuse: Difficulties with trust; Difficulties with self-protection; Difficulties with self-esteem; Difficulties with achievement; Difficulties with fitting in; Difficulties with intimacy; Relationships; -- Patterns of relating to the world: Caretaker-Rescuer; Hider; Take me, I'm yours; I'm tough, nothing hurts me; Lost souls; Walking time bombs; The only thing that helps is dying; My head aches, hug me; If it hurts, I know I'm here; -- Taking hold of your past: Once a victim, always a victim?; Once a victim, now an abuser?; Nothing matters anymore- why try?; Becoming whole: no more splitting; Constructive anger expression; Respond, don't simply react; Create opportunities; Get free of familiar traps; Become visible; Know your own power; Broaden your possibilities; -- Say goodbye to the parents you never had: Say hello to the parents you can be if you chose; Rescuing yourself: no more pipe dreams; -- Addendum: The non-abused sibling; Partners of adults abused as children.
Summary This book outlines some of the ways an adult may be affected by abuse or neglect as a child. It also helps the adult recognize the change that can be accomplished in breaking patterns and habits which resulted from the impact of abuse.
Subject Adult child abuse victims -- Rehabilitation.
Adult child abuse victims -- Rehabilitation. (OCoLC)fst00797207
Child Abuse. (DNLM)D002649
ISBN 0961320508 (pbk.)
9780961320508 (pbk.)

 
    
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