Don't tell anyone -- Pascal's story -- It never happens to boys -- Jimmy and Eric's stories -- Vulnerable and trapped : how sexual abuse comes about -- Philip and Matthew's stories -- The secret of the "Men's house" : how victims perceive sexual abuse -- Oliver and Andrew's stories -- Coming to terms with abuse : confused emotions -- Denis and Francis's stories -- Why me : identity confusion -- Bruno and Paul's stories -- From nightmares to fantasies : coping strategies and life scripts -- Justin's story -- To turn the page or to rewrite it : prevention and intervention.