Oneness -- Four key patterns that destroy oneness -- Communicating safely and clearly : the speaker-listener technique -- Problem solving -- Ground rules for protecting your marriage from conflict -- Issues and events -- Unmet expectations and what to do about them -- Understanding commitment -- The power of commitment -- Forgiveness and the restoration of intimacy -- Preserving and protecting friendship -- Increasing your fun together -- Enhancing and protecting your sex life -- Spiritual intimacy and oneness -- More information onthe Christian PREP approach -- Some thoughts on domestic violence.