What we say and how we say it matter -- Show respect for all students -- Create a culture of collaboration -- Develop students positive identity -- Set students up for success with behavior -- Support students when they struggle with behavior -- Elevate students moral reasoning -- Promote joyful learning -- Increase student ownership of learning -- Increase student participation -- Boost intrinsic motivation -- Focus on growth and learning -- Build a positive adult community : teachers talk together -- Shift your language patterns.